MY MR. BIG

Mr. Big of Carrie in Sex and the City is a succesful and sexy man, A great guy and a real charmer at that but underneath all that success is a scared, commitment phobic man. Who, just like every american guy that is so comfortable in single life. He is emotionally mute which drives the confident carrie insane at times.

I completely understand it now because i have my share of Mr. Big. Someone would think that a man so amazing wouldnt have a problem getting anyone he wants, but it turned out, most great guys are afraid of failed relationships and overtime, these failed relationships cripple their need to completely be intimate with someone. Eventhough their need to connect is unwavering, the thought of losing that love is more dreadful than the longing feeling to be in love so they would just not RISK it.

"When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there's no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?" ~Sex and the City.~

You once said that i shouldnt be feeling and thinking the way that i am feeling and thinking untill we actually meet. But now that we do have the chance to meet? why are you slipping away from me? ~CLIOGODDESS~