AM I SCARY?

Am i this scary? I ask coz there is this one person that i really find so stunningly cute, so being the flirtatious hag that i am, i sent him a message telling him how i admire his work and that i wish that we become friends. I never receive any reply on that bold move that i did and worse he suddenly decided to get married, at least that's what his new profile says, So am i that scary for men to suddenly decide to emigrate to timbuktu just to get away from me?